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Big Hair

A fine example of language extension via "signing": last year the family was going to a fancy restaurant to eat, a somewhat unusual event for us. I dropped everyone off near the entrance of the mall, then drove off in search of parking. Several minutes later I found a space and hiked back in. My wife and kids were nowhere to be found. I went up to the lady who was in charge of assigning tables and asked if the Dickerson-Zimmermann party had already been seated. (Quick context: my wife is "black", I'm "white", the kids are what they are, and everybody's hair is more-or-less natural.)

The helpful waitress-manager didn't have that name in her computer because it was early, the huge restaurant was far from full, and everyone who had been waiting for a table was already gone to sit down. She thought for a moment, then held her hands up and made a big-puffy-cloud gesture around her own head. "The African-American family?" she asked?

"Yes!" I replied, and we both smiled.

^z - 2009-01-08