Happiness isn't the only thing in life — but it is, or perhaps should be, an indicator that one is on a good path. Recently a friend pointed out an essay/post by Belle Beth Cooper, "10 Simple Things You Can Do Today That Will Make You Happier, Backed By Science" that offers a neat list:
- Exercise more — 7 minutes might be enough
- Sleep more — you'll be less sensitive to negative emotions
- Move closer to work — a short commute is worth more than a big house
- Spend time with friends and family — don't regret it on your deathbed
- Go outside — happiness is maximized at 13.9°C
- Help others — 100 hours a year is the magical number
- Practice smiling — it can alleviate pain
- Plan a trip — but don't take one
- Meditate — rewire your brain for happiness
- Practice gratitude — increase both happiness and life satisfaction
Good suggestions, though the pseudo-scientific false precision is distracting, unless it's meant to be humorous (unclear if so). Even better: Cooper's blog led to a thoughtful "About Us" page for her company, Buffer, which makes a scheduler program for delayed posting of social media items. The company philosophy and values as stated there is brilliant:
1. Always Choose Positivity and Happiness
You always approach things in a positive and optimistic way
You never criticize or condemn team members or users
You never complain
You let the other person save face, even if they are clearly wrong
You are deliberate about giving genuine appreciation2. Default to Transparency
You take pride in opportunities to share our beliefs, failures, strengths and decisions
You use transparency as a tool to help others
You always state your thoughts immediately and with honesty
You share early in the decision process to avoid "big revelations"3. Have a Focus on Self Improvement
You are conscious of your current level of productivity and happiness, and make continual changes to grow
You have a higher expectation of yourself than Buffer does of you
You regularly and deliberately do things that make you feel uncomfortable
You practice activites and develop habits that will improve your mind and body4. Be a "no-ego" Doer
You don't attach your personal self to ideas
You let others have your best ideas
You approach new ideas thinking "what can we do right now?"
You are humble
You always ship code the moment it is better than what is live on our site — no matter what5. Listen First, Then Listen More
You seek first to understand, then to be understood
You focus on listening rather than responding
You take the approach that everything is a hypothesis and you could be wrong
You are suggestive rather than instructive, replacing phrases such as 'certainly', 'undoubtedly', etc with 'perhaps', 'I think', 'my intuition right now'6. Have a Bias Towards Clarity
You talk, code, design and write in a clear way instead of being clever
You over-communicate, repeating things more times than you would intuitively
You use more words to explain, even if it feels obvious already
You don't make assumptions, you instead ask that extra question to have the full picture7. Make Time to Reflect
You deliberately find time for reflection, because that's where your life-changing adjustments come from
You have a calm approach to discussions and ponder points in your own time
You find time to jump out of the trenches into the higher level thinking that will move the needle
You understand the value of patience and treat it as a muscle which needs practice to grow8. Live Smarter, Not Harder
You value waking up fresh over working that extra hour
You always aim to be fully engaged in an activity, or resting
You single task your way through the day
You are at the top of your game, as you focus on expanding capacity of your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual energy
You choose to be at the single place on Earth where you are the happiest, and most productive, and you are not afraid to find out where that is9. Show Gratitude
You regularly stop and are grateful for your circumstances
You are grateful for the work co-workers do to push the company forward and help you move faster
You approach customer conversations with humility and the knowledge that it's a privilege to serve these people
You have gratitude for platforms, tools and open source that laid the foundation for the possibility of the company: "If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants" — Isaac Newton
Wisdom!
(cf. Optimist Creed (1999-04-16), How to Win Friends and Influence People (2008-05-17), Pursuit of Happiness (2008-11-19), Let Others Be Right (2012-12-31), ...) - ^z - 2013-12-22